He who rebukes a man will in the end gain more favor than he who has a flattering tongue. (Pr 28:23)
My first instinct is to always watch out for hurting someone’s feelings, so I often hold my tongue when I perhaps ought to rebuke them. I know this verse can be abused by those who like to vent their anger and call it “rebuke.” But sometimes I do more harm than good by holding my tongue, and instead finding something to compliment them on. Especially as a father, there are times I need to bring correction. Lord, help me to choose wisely in each situation. Help me to know when encouragement is needed for failure and when rebuke is needed for waywardness.
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I post this same comment to all new blogs I visit. Blog titles and profile photos are the number one reason I stop and visit a blog. And I do enjoy looking over blogs. Do I want you to visit my blog and become a follower? Of course I do! I would count it an honor.
God Bless You, Ron